
SEXUALITY & BELIEF SYSTEMS: RECLAIMING YOUR LIFE-FORCE THROUGH EMBODIED TRUTH
Jun 19
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Take a breath.
Not a shallow one - but one that dips deep into the belly. Let it open the chest, slide through the hips, and awaken that sacred space behind your navel. The space where your truth lives. The space where your fire sleeps.
That’s your life-force.
And yet, for many of us across the globe, that life-force was the first thing to be silenced.
Before you learned the word “desire,” you learned shame.
Before you were taught to celebrate your body, you were taught to hide it.
Before anyone told you your pleasure mattered… you were told your God was watching.
But what if your life-force was never meant to be feared?
What if it was the key, not the curse?
Welcome to one of the most taboo, tender, and transformational conversations of all:
The intersection between belief systems and sexuality.
And how, in denying one, we’ve often distorted both.
Sexuality & Belief Systems: A Double-Edged Mirror
Let’s start here: all belief systems, at their root, were designed to help us feel safe. To make sense of mystery. To honour something bigger than ourselves.

Whether religious, cultural, familial, or societal, beliefs are scaffolding for the psyche. They tell us who we are, how we should love. What’s allowed? What’s “divine”
But the problem isn’t belief itself.
The problem is when belief becomes a barrier to embodiment.
When we’re told that our pleasure must be purified…
That our desires are “sinful” unless sanctified by marriage, modesty, or masculinity…
That our body is a “test,” not a temple…
We don’t just lose sexual expression.
We lose access to the very force that animates us.
Because sexuality isn’t just what happens between the sheets.
It’s your vitality.
Your intuition.
Your emotional literacy.
Your capacity to feel, express, and connect.
When that get suppressed?
Everything else dims with it.
The Global Pattern: Repression in the Name of “Virtue”
Across the world, sexual repression often wears the mask of morality. But what it’s actually protecting… is power.
Let’s break this down gently and globally.
In conservative religious communities (Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, Buddhism), teachings around chastity, gender roles, and “purity” often silence healthy conversations about sex. Girls are taught to be obedient. Boys are taught to dominate. And LGBTQI+ souls? Often erased entirely.
In patriarchal cultures, control of female sexuality is seen as necessary for maintaining “honour.” Virginity becomes currency. Modesty becomes law. A woman’s worth is measured not by her joy, but by her silence.
In colonial histories, Indigenous understandings of sexuality - once fluid, sacred, and embodied - were violently replaced with shame-based doctrines. Eroticism was criminalised. Queerness demonized. Pleasure policed.
And this isn’t just history. It’s still happening - in homes, churches, schools, and media.

The Psychological Fallout: What Happens When Sexuality Is Suppressed
This kind of repression doesn’t just create awkward wedding nights or confusion around anatomy. It creates deep, intergenerational trauma.
Clinical studies have shown:
Touch aversion in adults raised with body-shaming beliefs
Sexual dysfunction, including pain, numbness, or dissociation during intimacy
Increased anxiety and guilt around arousal, masturbation, or desire
Delayed psychosexual development, especially in those never taught about boundaries, anatomy, or consent
Compulsive sexual behaviour (often as a trauma response, not liberation)
And perhaps most tragically?
It creates spiritual confusion - where people believe they must choose between God and their own body.
That’s not holiness.
That’s heartbreak.
Reclaiming Your Life-Force: What the Body Was Always Meant to Be
So let’s pause. Because if this feels tender… you’re not alone.

Many of us were handed scripts that said:
“Your body is a temptation.”
“Desire is dangerous.”
“Only certain kinds of love are valid.”
But those weren’t truths.
They were tools, often used to control.
So what’s the real truth?
That your sexuality is a living, breathing part of your divinity.
That it was never meant to be buried, but embodied.
That your sensuality isn’t a detour from your spirit - it’s one of its most sacred languages.
Because what is life-force if not… Life itself?
The spark that moves your hips to music.
The ache behind your longing.
The tears that rise when you’re touched with tenderness.
The warmth that says: “I’m here. I feel. I want to be known.”
So Why Were You Told Not to Explore It?
Because when someone is fully embodied, they’re harder to control.
Because when a woman knows her worth beyond her virginity, she becomes unruly to patriarchy.

Because when a queer person no longer hides, a whole system of shame begins to crumble.
Because when you understand your life-force, you become sovereign.
And sovereignty?
It’s contagious.
Erotic Awakening Is Spiritual Awakening
Let’s be clear: this isn’t about replacing your faith.
It’s about realigning it with your full humanity.

Pleasure and prayer can coexist.
Desire and devotion are not enemies.
They’re often lovers, waiting to be reunited.
Tantra, Taoism, Sufism, Indigenous medicine, and goddess traditions all recognised that sexual energy is spiritual energy. Not separate. Not sinful. Just sacred.
And science agrees.
A 2020 study in the Journal of Positive Psychology found that people who engaged in healthy, consensual sexual expression were more likely to report:
A sense of purpose
Connection to something greater than themselves
Increased emotional resilience
Greater compassion for others
Does that sound like a threat?
Or like evolution?
Practices to Rewire the Narrative
You don’t have to abandon your beliefs. You just have to reclaim your body.
Here’s where to begin:
1. Mirror Rituals
Look at yourself - naked, curious, without judgment. Trace the stories you’ve inherited. Which ones feel heavy? Which ones are ready to be composted?
2. Breath & Body Awareness
Use breathwork to reconnect. Each inhale says, “I belong here.” Each exhale says, “This body is mine.”
3. Write a Letter to the Gatekeeper

Address the teacher, parent, preacher, or internal voice that said, “You shouldn’t.” Then tell them how it made you feel. What does it cost you? And what you’re reclaiming now.
4. Sacred Touch (Solo or Shared)
Not for orgasm - but for reverence. Explore your body like a sacred temple. Let your fingers be prayers. Your moans, mantras.
5. Find Belief Systems That Celebrate the Erotic
Seek out spiritual teachings, books, or communities that recognise erotic energy as part of your wholeness. Let them remind you: you were never meant to fracture.
COSMIC SENSATION: Where the Sacred and Sensual Reunite
We’re not here to replace your beliefs.
We’re here to help you re-become.
To melt the false divide between sexuality and soul.
To whisper to the parts of you that were silenced… and say, “You’re allowed now.”

To remind you that divinity isn’t sterile.
It’s juicy. Playful. Raw. Rapturous.
We offer you rituals, language, imagery, and (eventually…) tools that aren’t just products - but portals.
To joy. To embodiment. To freedom.
You Were Never Broken
Your desire was never the enemy.
Your body was never a battleground.
Your life-force was never dangerous.
It was simply too radiant for a world still afraid of light.
So if you’ve ever wondered why your sexuality felt like a secret…
If you were ever told you couldn’t touch, feel, explore, express…
If you’ve spent years trying to separate your sensuality from your spirit…
Come home.

Not in rebellion.
But in remembrance.
Because the most sacred thing you can do?
It is to feel everything.
To make love a lifestyle.
To turn your belief into embodiment.
To let your life-force… lead.

COSMIC SENSATION
For the parts of you that were taught to stay quiet.
For the light in you, they tried to dim.
For the holy sensuality that was never lost, only waiting.
Let it rise.
Because of the real spiritual awakening?
Happens in the body.






